Distress Tolerance

Lesson 8 of 9

IMPROVE: make a hard moment easier

About 6 min

The goal

Use imagery, meaning and encouragement to get through.

Do it step by step

  1. 1

    Imagine a safe, calm place in detail for one minute.

  2. 2

    Find a meaning: "Why am I getting through this?"

  3. 3

    Pick one encouraging phrase: "I've done hard things before."

  4. 4

    Take a one-minute mini vacation: a stretch, a window, a drink.

For parents

Help your teen choose an encouraging phrase in their own words — borrowed ones rarely stick.

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