Distress Tolerance

Lesson 4 of 9

STOP: practice in slow motion

About 4 min

The goal

Rehearse STOP while calm so it's ready when you're not.

Do it step by step

  1. 1

    Stop: freeze your body for three seconds.

  2. 2

    Take a step back: one slow breath, or physically step away.

  3. 3

    Observe: name one body feeling and one thought.

  4. 4

    Proceed mindfully: ask "What will make this better, not worse?"

For parents

Agree on a family hand signal for STOP that anyone can use — including toward parents.

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