Interpersonal Effectiveness

Lesson 5 of 8

GIVE: kind disagreement

About 5 min

The goal

Keep a relationship strong while disagreeing.

Do it step by step

  1. 1

    Think of a small disagreement with someone you care about.

  2. 2

    Gentle: plan to avoid attacks or eye-rolls.

  3. 3

    Interested: write one question you could ask about their view.

  4. 4

    Validate: write one sentence that shows you get their side.

  5. 5

    Easy manner: choose a light, friendly opening line.

For parents

Role-play both sides, swapping roles. Parents practising GIVE with teens makes it real.

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