Lesson 7 of 8
Decide your priority: goal ranking
About 4 min
The goal
Choose what matters most before a tricky conversation.
Do it step by step
- 1
Name an upcoming conversation.
- 2
Rank: getting what I want / keeping the relationship / keeping my self-respect.
- 3
Pick the matching skill: DEAR MAN, GIVE or FAST.
- 4
Note one sentence you'll open with.
For parents
Help your teen see it's OK for priorities to change depending on who they're talking to.
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