Lesson 2 of 9
The cold water reset
About 3 min
The goal
Practise the Temperature part of TIPP as one body-based option for lowering intense arousal.
Do it step by step
- 1
Safety first: ask a healthcare professional before trying cold-water skills if you have a heart or medical condition, a low resting heart rate, take heart-rate-lowering medicine, have an eating disorder, or react badly to cold.
- 2
Use cool water — not ice-cold water — and hold your hands under it or splash your face for 15–30 seconds.
- 3
Focus only on the sensation: the cold, the temperature change on your skin.
- 4
Breathe out slowly as you do it.
- 5
Notice how your body feels afterwards. Stop if you feel dizzy, unwell or uncomfortable; another TIPP option may suit you better.
For parents
In a hard moment, offer the reset without commentary: "cold water?" and nothing else. Save all talking for after.
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