Emotion Regulation

Lesson 6 of 9

Opposite action: tiny brave step

About 5 min

The goal

Act opposite to an unhelpful urge, in a small way.

Do it step by step

  1. 1

    Name a feeling that doesn't fit the facts right now.

  2. 2

    Name its urge (hide, attack, avoid).

  3. 3

    Pick the opposite action, as small as you like.

  4. 4

    Do it fully — posture, voice and all — then rate the feeling again.

For parents

Never use opposite action on sensory distress. Overwhelm needs care, not pushing through.

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